Men and women are Created differently. They have different ways of
expressing and varying levels of emotional understanding. Avoid making
silly mistakes by getting a few simple things right. These are some of
the ten most common mistakes women make in a relationship.
Firstly!!! STEALING!!!!!
1. Too many questions about the past: The fact dat your man is in a
relationship with u currently is proof enough that he is in love with
you and has already gotten over his past relationships. While it’s good
to know a little bit about his past, don’t take the liberty of digging
so deep that his wounds freshen up.
2. Visiting his workplace: This is quite a sensitive issue as most
men don’t like their girlfriends dropping in at their workplaces without
being told. It is only if you are in a steady relationship from a long
time or engaged that you can take the liberty of dropping into your
man’s workplace uninformed.
3. Bringing up marriage: If you have been in a relationship for a
long time, it’s but natural that you will talk about marriage and
settling down at some point. You may have a conversation about this once
but don’t bring up the topic again and again. You will be at a loss if
your man gets irritated by the same conversation taking place
repetitively. It’s not that men are averse to commitment; it’s just that
they take some time in taking these important decisions.
4. Pretending to be someone: If there is anything that men hate, it
is lies and hypocrisy. Many women make the blunder of pretending to be
what they are not in reality. For instance, if you don’t like putting on
makeup and dressing too much for a party, don’t do it just for him. He
will immediately sense your discomfort. He would much rather appreciate
and love your honesty and expect you to be what you are.
5. Compare financials: How would you feel if someone compared your
salary figures to that of your contemporaries? Terrible, surely!
Although in today’s world, women see themselves as equals to men, men
still think of themselves as bread earners of the family. Treat your man
with respect irrespective of his earning. Don’t ever make the mistake
of comparing his financials with others.
6. Don’t attempt to mend him: Accept him with all his flaws and
abilities. Don’t try and mother him to change his habits according to
your needs. Give your man his space and watch how that automatically
brings him to you.
7. Giving too much freedom: If you see your man talking to other
women at most of the parties and even going to the extent of flirting
with them when you’re around, take that as a warning signal and strike
on it as soon as possible but don’t be rude, do it politely and in
style. You may be making a terrible mistake by trusting your partner
blindly with such behavior.
8. Expecting expression of feelings all the time: Men are not used to
constant expression. For instance, you should expect a compliment from
him once in a while but if you start expecting it every day then you are
calling for trouble. You have to understand that just because men don’t
express the way in which women freely do; it doesn’t mean they don’t
love with passion.
9. Talking negatively: If you Naughty Lady about others in front of
your man all the time (once in a while is acceptable of course), it will
make him feel that someday when you are not together you will talk
about him in the same way with other people. Don’t make an impression on
him that you are a negative person.
10. Comparing Looks: Impress your man by showing some confidence
about how beautiful and attractive you look. It’s not your outfit but
your confidence that attracts your man. In trying to fish for
compliments by comparing your physical appearance with other women, you
are just making matters worse.In-addition: Women often commit blunders
with men in relationships.
It’s a matter of understanding that men have a certain way of dealing
with things that is different from women. Once you get this point, you
will be much more comfortable and at ease in dealing with the men in
your life.
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